As the world marks the 14th International Sex Worker’s Rights Day today, Nigerian sex workers have joined their counterparts in some countries to demand for legal recognition of their trade as a job.
Though
many of them did not realise that a day like this was set aside for them until
they were told, they also called on rights activists to assist them gain the
desired recognition.
“See,
many people, including you, do not see us as human beings. In your mind, we are
a condemned set of Nigerians who sell their bodies so cheaply, but that thought
is not right,” Jane, a lady from eastern Nigeria who operates at a brothel
close to the railwayline in Agege, told our correspondent.
Her
colleague, a 27-year old from southern Nigeria, said with their rights
recognised, they could pay tax to the government and to be seen as decent
people in the society.
“In
some countries abroad, sex workers pay taxes. There is no discrimination, they
can sue and even have streets, mainly in red light districts allocated to them
to carry out their trades.
“But
here in Nigeria, we are faced with rejection from the society, serious
harassment by the police, and victimisation by our customers.
“You
can imagine a customer who rushes into this place in a desperate bid to ease
himself, jumps at one of us after a bargain and rides like a horse only to
renege on the agreement on how much he should pay. If we have our rights, we
could call for his arrest without shame or molestation from security agents and
other Nigerians,” she explained.
In
a brothel just a few meters away, another sex worker, Judith, told our
correspondent that many prostitutes have various reasons for taking up the
“business.”
In
her own case, she had travelled out of the country primarily to “hustle in
Spain. But I was deported even before reaching the place.
“It
was a tough experience and I started sleeping with men as we moved from one
country to another just to get money to survive. I stayed two months in Morocco
gathering money, but just days to my entering Spain, I was caught with other 80
women and men and sent back to Nigeria.
“I
am from Agbor in Delta State and couldn’t go back to my place because of the
shame. So I took up residency in this place servicing men daily and making
money. I’m even more comfortable here now and I make good money, about N12,000
every week,” she said.
In
another brothel located behind the lock-up shops in Iyana-Ipaja, Philo, a
30-year old, who said she never heard that sex workers had such a day in their
honour, said it would be good for government to give them legal backing.
“We
can be seen as social workers assisting men who can’t summon the courage to
‘toast’ women, who are downtrodden and can’t maintain having a full-time
girlfriend or wife as well as those who love variety.
“Ordinarily,
without us, there would be much depression among men in the country. If you see
what we have to bear sometimes, dirty men, stinking mouths and a lot more. How
many women on the streets can accommodate that?” she asked.
Her
colleague, who gave her name as Eki (meaning market in Bini language), said
granting recognition to prostitutes in Nigeria is the best thing government
could do for them.
“In
many parts of the world, women are not ashamed to say they are call girls
because they are recognised by the society.
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